Thursday, March 12, 2026

7:05

Just returned from the hospice.  Simon and I had been with Carol all day with obviously increasing pain this morning, which the dr. on duty corrected. Sitting by her bed we were aware of some response but when two church friends popped into see her, and share in tea provided by volunteers, Carol seemed on the same gentle path of decline.

We left at 6:30 after prayer and promises to see her tomorrow. We had travelled three miles or so when the phone rang. The sister in charge told us that when they were changing her position it seemed that she has suddenly developed a sinister breathing pattern. She thought the end was close. We turned around and re-entered the hospice. Sister Rosa was sitting with Carol. I was stunned by the change.  It is often commented that people choose to die when their relatives leave. Was this happening? 

It gave us a chance to say our thanks to her and all she means to us,. I read some Scripture and prayed, especially that she might enter glory peacefully.  Within minutes her breathing had ceased! 7:05 is the recorded time.

I have too much to work through at present and, unfortunately, the Coroner has to be involved because of the unknown neurological illness.  Obviously I shall post details. For all your prayers and happy memories of dear Carol, thank you.

2 comments:

Lucy and Matthew said...

Thank you so much for keeping us posted. What a mercy to be able to get back to the hospice. We are holding all the family in our prayers as you process all that happens and will happen next.

MW Mary Whitmer said...

Michael, I am so sorry! I loved Carol so much and she was always a wonderful friend. May God’s peace surround you and your family. With love and prayers, Mary