Just returned from the hospice. Simon and I had been with Carol all day with obviously increasing pain this morning, which the dr. on duty corrected. Sitting by her bed we were aware of some response but when two church friends popped into see her, and share in tea provided by volunteers, Carol seemed on the same gentle path of decline.
We left at 6:15 after prayer and promises to see her tomorrow. We had travelled three miles or so when the phone rang. The sister in charge told us that when they were changing her position it seemed that she has suddenly developed a sinister breathing pattern. She thought the end was close. We turned around and re-entered the hospice. Sister Rosa was sitting with Carol. I was stunned by the change. It is often commented that people choose to die when their relatives leave. Was this happening?
It gave us a chance to say our thanks to her and all she means to us,. I read some Scripture and prayed, especially that she might enter glory peacefully. Within minutes her breathing had ceased! 7:05 is the recorded time.
I have too much to work through at present and, unfortunately, the Coroner has to be involved because of the unknown neurological illness. Obviously I shall post details. For all your prayers and happy memories of dear Carol, thank you.
5 comments:
Thank you so much for keeping us posted. What a mercy to be able to get back to the hospice. We are holding all the family in our prayers as you process all that happens and will happen next.
Michael, I am so sorry! I loved Carol so much and she was always a wonderful friend. May God’s peace surround you and your family. With love and prayers, Mary
We are so sorry to hear of her passing. We are sorry for your loss but so glad she can be with the Lord she loved. She was a delight to be around and so much fun! We will be praying God’s peace for you and your family
Paul and Carol Cahill
Michael and family, we love all of you so much and will be praying for the Lord’s precious comfort as you mourn. Carol was so, so dear to us and we can hear her soft, gentle English accent, filled with so much love for her Lord and family, and touching each of us in our FBC small group with her wisdom. With much love, Dave and Cindy Heslinga
There will be much more to say in the future, dear Michael. However, we will let you know that our hearts are broken. We can’t imagine a world without the two of you brightening the lives of everyone around you. We miss Carol desperately and are sorry we can’t be at your side at this grievous time. Remember Psalm 84: How lovely is your dwelling place O Lord, my soul faints for the courts of the living God…
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